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Worried about the future

User Profile: hongjis001230
hongjis001230 March 12th, 2025

I’m in school right now and i’m scared about the future. They really expect you to pick a career and have everything all planned out right away and it’s stressing me out. Plus, they give me so much work and its the march break and it’s like i cant even rest

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User Profile: EnlightenedArtist
EnlightenedArtist March 12th, 2025

Hi @hongjis001230 ✨ Thank you for sharing what you are going thru…

It actually doesn’t matter what “they want” - it is what You want. The decision of what you want to do is something that only you can take at your own time…

Take a deep breath, focus in you and what you feel, what do you want today and take one step at a time 😊✨

Sending you lots of cool vibes✨

User Profile: 16peacefulBraveheart01
16peacefulBraveheart01 March 12th, 2025

@hongjis001230

I hear you. That pressure is so overwhelming, and it’s completely unfair how they expect you to have your entire future figured out when you’re still just trying to make it through today. The truth is, most people don’t have it all planned out even the ones who seem like they do. Life is messy, and paths change. You don’t need to have all the answers right now. You’re allowed to take your time.  

And the fact that they’re piling on so much work during your break? That’s just plain exhausting. You deserve rest actual rest, not just moments in between stressing about assignments. Please, if you can, carve out even a little bit of time just for yourself. Even if it’s something small, like watching a show, listening to music, or just lying down and doing absolutely nothing. You deserve that.  

You’re doing your best, and that’s enough. You’re enough. The future will come, and you’ll figure it out as you go. You don’t have to have everything planned today. Just take it one step at a time, okay? You’ve got this.