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Ghosted

User Profile: straightforwardPond5494
straightforwardPond5494 November 9th, 2021

I feel like I'm never gonna get through this because I have no closure. I feel like my own friends don't care what happens to me.

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul November 9th, 2021

@straightforwardPond5494 Hey :) I know it hurts when people just disappear from our lives. It's like you're grieving a death but there's no body there. It's hard not having closure but sometimes the closure that's given can be just as cruel as being ghosted - I guess because maybe the closure we want and the closure we get can be two totally different things. Sometimes there's no closure because maybe the other person isn't mature enough or maybe they just don't know what to say. It says more about them then it does about you and the people who may not understand why you feel you need this have probably never had it happen to them or if they did they maybe feel they don't need closure. Idk - this probably wasn't very helpful - it's just that it's something I asked for not all that long ago and the closure I was given - well - it didn't make me feel any better. Tbh - it just made me hate myself more