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A bit of help here pls

User Profile: lunaestrellada
lunaestrellada August 20th, 2025

I need someone to be there for me, to listen to me and give me advice.

My partner and I have been through many bad times in our relationship, which has caused my family and friends to distance themselves from me and not accept that I'm still with this person. This has caused me a lot of anxiety, and I've even started to think I might be depressed. I spend my days feeling sad, crying like never before. I'm afraid people will see me on the street with my partner in case they'll judge me. I always feel sad and bad. Nothing motivates me anymore, and I feel very alone. I have no one to tell my problems to anymore.

Thanks in advance!

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 August 20th, 2025

@lunaestrellada

🥺

Im sorry you feel so alone and isolated.

I hear your pain.

I'm sorry your friends and family don't see what you see in your partner.

You don't have to suffer alone or cry alone, come here and vent, as often as you need to 💕💜

User Profile: willingSea7830
willingSea7830 August 21st, 2025

Just speaking from experience, it’s likely that your friends and family are just worried and only want the absolute best for you, not that your partner isn’t a good person but since you both have had a rocky relationship it can alter how they perceive your partner and cause them to distance themselves..if you really think your relationship with this person has potential keep pursuing, only you will know in the end if this person is for you, personally I had a rocky relationship with my now husband to begin with and was in your shoes especially when it came to how my friends and family thought of him through those times, but we were able to overcome our obstacles. However, there are some situations where that is not the case.

Follow your heart but don’t settle. You’re worth so much! & I hope you find peace in the situation.

Sending so much love.