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User Profile: andrewtan99
andrewtan99 February 11th, 2025

A means the A in grades. I was onced told by my mom that if I can't finish that homework (which I don't know how to finish), that I shouldn't be thinking of sleep for the rest of my life. After that, I stopped thinking of sleep and go through whatever I need to go through from day to night, from night to day, and fell asleep on my desk. Later, she told me that I should sleep, then now scolding me for wanting to sleep and sleeping at 10:30am because of sleep deprivation. She said she bought a movie ticket for me but I'm too tired to join my family movie session. She said in a serious tone that if I don't start moving my muscles will die, then proceeded to lose control of her kindness and said my muscles are full of hate(?), she also said I'll be living in *** here in my house, while they are enjoying the movie out there in a cinema or whatever (idk, I'd didn't read the ticket details), she also said seriously that I only think about myself while out there the movie producers made the movie with so much effort, and here I am not joining my family and she shamed me for it. While she's there talking about her movie, disregarding my need for sleep even though there's black circles around my eyes and said I didn't care about them and only care about myself, she's the one who cared about herself and not others while blaming me for doing it she's doing it already. I'm here yelling out on an online social platform that she's a selfish person and that is wrong. She's a manipulator.

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User Profile: jacek73
jacek73 February 11th, 2025

@andrewtan99

Your mother's behaviour seems to be extremely abusive. It looks like she forces you to compensate for her low self-esteem, and her need to be proud and respected, by your getting As.

If you are looked after by a school psychologist or a social worker, I think you could report it.