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At 38, I feel I failed and lonely

User Profile: considerateLunch2133
considerateLunch2133 September 8th, 2024

I am 38 M from India. I have been going thru lot of minor health issues lately. Although these seems to be minor, but these are giving me severe anxiety.


I have been lonely for last 15 years. I am introverted which makes socializing very tough. Struggled financially until I was 28 to support my family. After that I never had any desire to have a spouse and kids. Now I am almost 40, age is catching up. These health issues gives me anxiety that I don't have anyone to depend on during emergency situations..


The entire social structure is built around couples/family. There are hardly any help who wants to be single but still enjoy the life.

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User Profile: bestVase7265
bestVase7265 September 9th, 2024

That sounds pretty scary to feel so lonely like that. Maybe starting to build up a support network here might help.

Feel free to add a message to this thread any time that you want. I usually answer within 24 hours.

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