Depressed
I'm depressed since last year. My ex cheated on me. though i was loyal for him. But i was feeling little bit better Because my ex friend understand that he's friend cheated on me and he supported me and wanted to date me so i accepted him. But i noticed nowadays he's ignoring me and making uncaused excuses. He's christian but how Ramadan can stop him talking to me. He said he Won't be able to talk for 1 month Because It's Ramadan. He's active in online but he's not replying my message though he saw i posted sad story on fb. I don’t understand how Ramadan stop ppl not replying simple message. I could make excuse cuz I'm Muslim.
Idk what happened he's ignoring me. Ik It's normal to feel sus abt him when he's ignoring me. but he don’t like it he get mad at me when I'm feel sus abt him. My heart is ripped cuz he disrespected me not replying simple message ignoring me always he said he's always busy with school.
Idk what to say if he reply me 1month later and say he still love me should i believe? Hes ignoring me for sure.
Should i reply him or not idk.
My friends r saying not to reply him, block him, ditch him. Idk what to do i can't do cuz i have feelings for him.
I want to know if he's cheating with me or not. I'm overthinking Don't know what to decide.
@goodHuman156
I hear you, and I can feel how much this is tearing you up inside. You’ve already been through so much heartbreak, and now it feels like it’s happening all over again. That’s not fair to you. You deserve love that is clear, consistent, and reassuring not something that leaves you feeling anxious, confused, and questioning your worth.
I won’t tell you what to do, because I know that when you have feelings for someone, it’s never as simple as just walking away. But I will say this someone who truly cares about you wouldn’t make you feel like an afterthought. They wouldn’t go completely silent for a month, stay active online, ignore your pain, and then expect to come back like nothing happened. Ramadan or not, replying to a simple message takes seconds. His actions are speaking louder than his words, and deep down, I think you already know that.
I get why you're overthinking because you care and because you've been hurt before. But the right person will never make you feel like you’re being “too much” for needing clarity and respect. You have every right to expect honesty and effort in a relationship.
If he does come back a month later saying he still loves you, ask yourself does love feel like this? Does love feel like being ignored, doubted, and made to feel crazy for your valid feelings? know it’s painful, but I promise you, someone who truly values you will never make you question your place in their life.
For now, take a deep breath. You don’t have to decide everything today. Just focus on what makes you feel safe, valued, and at peace. And no matter what happens, know this you are worthy of love that doesn’t leave you second-guessing.
Thanks for understanding my pain. Ur really good hearted person ❤️🩹