Depressed and distracted with sexual orientation
Hi all. I am a 35 year old bisexual male in a great relationship with a woman. As I've accepted my bisexuality and as my relationship has gotten deeper I am finding I have more and more homosexual urges, fantasies, and I'm wondering "am I actually just gay". This is preventing me from going any further in my relationship. I'd like advice, someone to chat with, or any suggestions
@invisco
Hi there. Thanks for reaching out.
I hear you. Figuring out your sexual orientation can sometimes feel complicated. Personally I don’t feel a dream ‘proves’ orientation one way or the other. Also there are different forms of attraction, ie. Feeling romantically attracted to men for example but sexually attracted to women. It’s ok to feel like this. It does sound like you need to look at your feelings and see where they take you.
Hope this helps if only a little.
