Don’t know what to do
My boyfriend told me that his parents were not fond of our relationship. What am going to do now? How can i just end it when my whole world was him, i had plans for us, I pictured that perfect little world where we were married ,having kids ,a dog, a perfect little home just for us. How should i feel when all those just crumble on like a nightmare.? How should i feel ? Should i feel sad, devastated, depressed? Or should i feel happy by letting him go, letting him to choose his parents because they have the right on him? I don't just feel anything to be honest. What should i do? Should i end it instead of him? I don't know what to do. But i know that if isn't him then i won't be ablem to love another.
What should i do I don't know? I don't see an answer
That sounds like quite a blow. But I don't think that you necessarily need to move fast on anything right away.
Is it possible that your boyfriend has misunderstood his parents? That happens. Maybe they haven't had a really good chance to get to know you yet. Maybe they are scared that they might "lose him" to you.
It can be a single incident or something you said unknowingly that made them unsure. I think that I would try to get to know them better first. Show off your good side and try to find qualities that you like in them.
Check back with him after a few months of solid effort as to how his parents feel now. If the gap then seems unbridgeable start imagining other solutions. @braveCircle6098
@braveCircle6098 Certainly there is no way to feel "happy" after a relationship ends, unless the relationship was bad--yours clearly wasn't--or unless you cannot care. You did & do care, as would any normal person.
As for what you should do, one thing is to remember this:
There are other fish in the sea.
Some of them are just as good as your ex, if not better.