Hate my life
Trapped in a marriage for ten years . Have given it all to make it work n ignore all the hurtful moment. It only made my partner to see that as my weakness n use it make my trapped in deeper . While my partner uses me a resources and not validate me for being here . Worst is to see my beautiful daughter loose her spark seeing me struggle in this situation.
@friendlySquare5361
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I'm sorry that you are struggling .
You deserve so much more and to be treated so much better.
@friendlySquare5361
Hey, it sounds like a lot of self-sacrifice 🥺
What if you asked yourself: what would be one first thing I could do for myself? A gym class? A coffee with a friend every Friday? What could build me some space where I matter regardless of what my husband does?
What if you focused on yourself for a moment before prioritizing smoothing things for your him? I imagine it would create some tension but maybe it is what is needed to trigger difficult but positive changes?
When your daughter gets married, how would you wish her to approach this kind of problems?