Heartbreak.
Why is it difficult to let go of somebody you love? Why do people change? Why do they miscommunicate? Why does the universe introduce them to me if they are not forever? How do i stop this physical chest pain that has no plan to stop anytime?
@politeSea3693
Communication while on the surface seems like it would be hard to miscommunicate, but because of technology people lack the tools to convey their needs properly often finding it difficult to relate to others..
People come in and out of our lives at random, you shouldn't take it personally, it's usually they find others or they just get bored with their life.. 🌲
Why do they do that?? I have never loved them any less. And they left me without any closure.
@politeSea3693 I feel I can relate to your questions. I was asking them many times. I feel like I started to build my understanding. Most connections is not meant to be forever and people usually are ok with it. However, some of us have deep hunger for safe stable connection. One reason I see might be not getting the safety experience at home during growing up.
For what it’s worth: I think the wish for love, dependable communication and good will is beautiful. It seems that most relationships can provide it just within some limits…
Wanna talk more 1:1 chat about your chest pain?
It feels like the person I was holding onto was my anchor in a storm. But now I have none. I am just alone in this whole situation moving nowhere. Just standing and waiting for someone to hold me, just let me have my safe place. But it can't be possible. All the love I gave to them was worth nothing and nothing at all.
It was worth something. I want you to believe it so badly. I can remember how this kind of doubt feels. It tears you apart alive with no sedative. I am pretty sure that your love matted at the time when you gave it. I can’t know what happened at the end but the feeling that it invalidates everything is not objective.
Thank you so much my dear friend. Your advice is worth it. My heart wanted just one person. And now it feels like why me??? Why me god??? I do worship regularly. Never did evil to anyone but still why me who is hurt.... It's that type of pain. I loved him so much that I cannot unlove him. I feel so pathetic that my standards are this low but i can't help it.
Come here. Let’s have a hug 🫂
Now, you are not pathetic. Yes, it would not be difficult to find people who would call your behavior just that. The point is that those are not the only people on this world and… you just belong on the other side.
I wish I could be as positive as you. I need him. And at the same time, I don't. Ahhhhhhh what to do with my life? Why is this real??????
Thank you so much for being there.🫂
I left 1:1
@politeSea3693 life can be so mean sometimes 💙 I wish I had the answers for you
I hope that pain eases soon 💙
Thanks for considering. 💙
