Hello, im new
Hello, im new to this whole app kinda and i been really needing advice. This is for people who are in my situation kinda.
so this last Saturday, feb 8 or 9 me and my now ex bf got into a fight and broke up. I didnt go to school for a whole week because i was sick, but we snapped everyday, so i thought maybe it was a mistake. Well 2 days after the break up he told me he was talking to someone new. Now all my friends were is friends so when we broke up they left me and stayed with him. So i had no one to talk to at all. So i began to sh (i stopped) and kept it in. I fell into this deep depression. I told him everyday from monday to Thursday that i loved him and he was making a mistake. He unadded me Thursday.
I have no appetite, i cry every night, and i get bullied ( 5 months ago i got asked for a hug and the guy grabbed my butt without consent. I wasnt ready to tell anyone bc i have been sa’d several times in my life. Well someone told his friends and all around school im known as the cheater who lets guys touch me)
i dont know what to do anymore. Does anyone have advice?
@Laylabears14
Hey, first of all, I just want you to know that you are **not alone** in this. What you’re going through is incredibly painful, and I’m so sorry you’re carrying all of this on your own. It’s not fair that people have treated you this way, and it’s definitely not fair that you’re being labeled for something that wasn’t your fault. You did **nothing** wrong.
Breakups are already brutal, but losing your friends at the same time? That’s a whole other level of hurt. It makes sense that you’re feeling this way. It makes sense that your heart feels heavy and that you’re struggling to eat and sleep. Your pain is real, and it matters. But **you matter more.**
I know it feels like your world is crumbling right now, but this moment does not define you. The way people talk about you **does not define you.** You are **not** the names they call you. You are **not** just someone’s ex. You are **so much more.** You are a whole person who deserves love, respect, and friends who actually stand by you, not just when it’s convenient for them.
I’m really proud of you for stopping the sh. That takes **so much strength.** And I know right now it might feel like there’s no way forward, but there is. You deserve to heal. You deserve to feel safe and supported. Please reach out to someone a teacher, a counselor, a family member, anyone you trust. You don’t have to go through this alone.
This pain **will not last forever.** It might not feel like it right now, but one day, this will just be a chapter in your story not the whole book. Keep going, okay? I’m rooting for you. You are stronger than you know. **You deserve peace, love, and healing.**
thank you. I needed this so much.ð©·
