Honest to God

I am in a position to were I feel like I am asking for what's right, but , being treated like it's wrong. I want financial stability, peace, family, a fulfilling life, freedom from this pain and trauma. But when doors open that seem to grant them, I have to close them, or they get shut in my face. I feel like theirs an age limit on happiness and it says 18+, and I'm just asking , for a friend, is this the best life has to offer.