🌳 Identity Beyond Diagnosis- Part 2: The Stories I Tell Myself
🌿 Welcome back.
Thank you for returning.
In our last session, we explored the idea that you are more than any label you carry.
Today, we'll gently look at something else that shapes our identity:
The stories we tell ourselves.
🍃 Every one of us has an inner voice.
Sometimes it encourages us.
Sometimes it protects us.
And sometimes... it repeats messages we've heard so often that we begin to accept them as facts.
🌳 You might notice thoughts like:
"I'm not good enough."
"I always fail."
"People won't understand me."
These thoughts can feel convincing.
But here's something important:
🌱 A thought is not always a fact.
Many of our beliefs are shaped by experiences, difficult moments, or words we've heard from others.
That doesn't mean they define who we are forever.
🌿 Take a quiet moment.
You don't need to change anything right now.
Just observe.
🍃 If you'd like, reflect on these questions:
🌳 What is one thought about myself that I hear often?
🌳 Where do I think that story began?
🌳 Has there ever been a moment that gently challenged that story?
🌱 There are no perfect answers.
Simply noticing is already a meaningful step.
🌳 A small reflection activity
If you feel comfortable, complete these sentences:
🍃 "A story I often tell myself is..."
🍃 "One small piece of evidence that doesn't completely fit that story is..."
🍃 "A kinder way I could speak to myself today is..."
Remember, this isn't about pretending everything is positive.
It's about making room for a more balanced and compassionate perspective.
🌿 Imagine your thoughts as leaves floating down a stream.
You can notice them.
You can watch them.
You don't have to hold on to every one of them.
🌳 Before we finish, I'd like to leave you with one question to carry into your day:
If your inner critic became quiet for just one hour... how might you see yourself differently?
🌱 Thank you for being here and for meeting yourself with curiosity.
I'll see you in Part 3: Rediscovering My Strengths.