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I don't know what to do

User Profile: reposava
reposava September 6th, 2023

My friend keeps cussing me out and getting upset at me for no reason. We've been very close friends for 2 years now, but it feels like we grew up together. She changed when we got a boyfriend and started being mean to me and leaving me out. She makes me feel less of myself. I let her meet my other best friend and now they leave me out of things and shut the doors in my face whenever we all hang out. I think she was talking about me during lunch today right before my face because I didn't know where she and our friend were sitting. I feel so upset and angry at her and I'm tired of me and her going back and forth. We've tried talking about these problems before but she gives short answer responses and doesn't fix anything.

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User Profile: Barltik2065
Barltik2065 September 8th, 2023

@reposava

I am really sorry to hear you and your close friend are having issues. Teenage years bring all sorts changes going, emotional situations, school situations, and peer pressures. It must not be easy and simple for you. Know you are not alone

Your feels are valid. We acknowledge them. I am sure I would feel the same way in your shoes. People can cruel at times and friends don’t always see what you do. It must be rough. We are here for you.

Do you think she wants to fix anything or do you think knows there is a problem that is needing to be fixed?

User Profile: bestVase7265
bestVase7265 September 9th, 2023

That sounds really frustrating. I am not sure that I would want to be around her drama if I didn't have to. But it is really painful to set off in a new direction. Sending peace. @reposava