I have no friends
... since years and I don't know what to do to get friends and also if I even want friends. I feel really lonely but also I don't have the energy for searching/making friends and a lot of anxiety. : (
as someone with social anxiety, I know exactly how you feel. Having people around you to support you is so important but can be really difficult to find. Start out slowly. You don’t have to meet a lot of people and make a huge group of new friends right away. Find one or two people that you really connect with. Do you have any hobbies or interest? Maybe an art class? A sports club? I’ve been there before many times where I just didn’t want to be around people or fear that people wouldn’t want to be my friend. Be patient and kind to yourself. It’s okay to feel this way. Do what feels right
Thank you for being understanding: ) I'm just so so scared of that connection with others
@communicativeApple9560 hi I'm Lola ❤ you have us here at cups, we are all like family here. So you got at least one friend, me😁 I'm sure you'll make lots of friends here ❤ I know it's not the same as in person friends though. Perhaps if your ever feeling like it you could join a local group, perhaps something to do with your hobbies/interests. Good luck with everything ❤❤ hugs you tightly ❤
Hello lola I'm happy to be your friend haha thanks for being understanding you are nice: ) ❤
@communicativeApple9560 ❤❤❤ good morning ❤ coffee time😁😁
Sending more peace and an offer of friendship. There are some really nice people here and it is a good place to get started.
If you add to this thread, I will respond to it daily.
Tell us more about yourself. @communicativeApple9560
