Im alone
Hey guys i’m 23 and I live with my partner and i dont want to bother him with all my mental issues. He knows I been struggling all my life but now its gotten worse and he’s also going thru his own things so I dont want to make it worse on him by dumping all my struggles onto him
So if anyone wants to reach out and doesnt mind listening to me that will be appreciated.
Hi @ar1ee ✨
Im sorry you are going through this… We are here and there is also listeners
Sending lots of good vibes✨
Hey 💙
I wish I could help, but I'm only a teen listener 😔 but you can always look through the available listeners and drop a message to someone who clicks with you
I hope you find the outlet you're looking for 💙
@ar1ee Hi, how is the search of listener going?
Your situation does sound lonely. In general your instinct to not offload your struggles onto your partner sounds reasonable. However, reality tends to be more complex than a single rule saying „just don’t”. I actually think it is „don’t offload but do share”. I also think it might feel complicated without lived experience of being supported from childhood or in general. Is that something you would like figure out more?
I usually am not available for longer online conversations now. I tend to do mostly asynchronous messages cross multiple days. If that is ok with you and you would like to discuss more, then I am here for you. <- as a listener or through comments here