I need help
Lately my girlfriend has been feeling really bad because of family problems, friends, and even with me. Today she told me that she’s reaching her limit and that if she had the courage to kill herself, she would. Honestly, that worries me a lot. I don’t know how to help her. I would never want to live a whole life without her. I truly love her and I care about her. How can I make her feel better and take all those thoughts out of her mind, so she can forget about that and feel better? Maybe I’ve made her feel bad, or maybe I’m not the best boyfriend in the world, but I never want to lose her—and especially not forever. I would never allow that. That’s why I’m asking for help with this message, for advice or something like that. I’m really worried about my girlfriend :(
@theghost358
I really don't know what to say but...
You don’t fix someone’s darkness by burning yourself as a lamp. You stay beside em, you hold their hand, and u help em reach the people who can guide them back into the light. Your love matters... but her life matters even more. And the best way to love her right now is to make sure she isn’t fighting this battle alone.
You’re not failing her. You’re not losing her. You’re doing exactly what a caring, terrified, deeply loving partner would do....reaching out because you want her safe💙