I need someone to talk to
I’ve been feeling depressed these past few days. My feelings are always invalidated, as if I have no right to express my thoughts and feelings, no right to be upset at all. 😭
I wish i could talk to someone who experience the same and feel validated.
@warmfriendship28
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You do matter!
Your feelings are valid!
Its ok to be honest!
It's ok to need help!
Its not easy but feeling better is possible.
You are not alone here and if you need more one on one support than the forums offer, browse the listeners, read their bios, and when their lights is green, they are online 💕💜
Thank you so much. I somehow feel better reading your message. God bless your kind heart! ð©·
@warmfriendship28
Im glad you hear that, ah, it's genuinely a pleasure 💜💕
I know it's very hard to deal with such emotions. But there are always people who have experienced the same as you. I realised that when I finally started to let my friends open up to me. That's when I knew I'm not the only one drowning in the darkness. It might take time but you will also find people who'll support you and make you feel understood. But in order to keep those people with you forever, you have to treat them with the same amount love and affection as well.
Honestly, I used to love unconditionally and wholeheartedly, even to a person who constantly betrayed me, to the point that I’ve drained myself because instead of being heard and understood, that person blamed me in return. I hate myself because I keep on understanding and loving that person even though he has no intention to change. It’s so depressing to be trapped in this cycle. 😢
Thank you so much for sharing your similar story a and for your advice. I’ll try doing that, i’ll find more people who are like you too. I sincerly Thank you!
Please don't hate yourself for giving someone a chance (or many!)! That is not a bad thing, but I can totally understand how it could get so darn tiring! But you sound like a great person! Don't lose sight of that! We all need help sometimes (as I am learning more and more every day, much to my own dismay!), and I definitely get how it can get draining to always listen to everyone but never have someone reciprocate. I've been there too. But you sound like a great person and while that can be very tiring, don't despair! You will get through all of this too, and I hope you find a great community here.
