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User Profile: diligentPlace3267
diligentPlace3267 March 18th, 2025

Hey so i kinda isolated myself lately from evrything but found this site and wanted to talk a bit. I don't have many friends and i hate burdeninf them about all im going through. Currently have bad thoughts about self-harm. I have been struggling with depression for years now but it has gotten worse this year. I haven't been to school for a bit now because of my condition and i really need someone to talk to as I'm going through a horrible time especially with my parents as they never understand me. I keep tryign to talk it through with them but every moment that i think they get it, they go back soon enough back to the same thinking. I talk to my therapist but it doesn't do much since my parents contorl me in evrything i do and i can only vent there. Each conclusion leads to nothing as my parents continue to dump it all on me. I am taking pills which were supposed to work but its past the time they should have started working so I'm hopeless. Please can you help? Just talking would be nice

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User Profile: 16peacefulBraveheart01
16peacefulBraveheart01 March 18th, 2025

@diligentPlace3267

Hey, I just want you to know that you’re not alone. I hear you, and I see how much you’re struggling right now. It takes so much strength to reach out, even when it feels like the weight of everything is pulling you down. And I promise, no matter how hopeless things feel, this moment won’t last forever.  

It’s incredibly frustrating when the people who are supposed to support you don’t understand what you’re going through. You deserve to be heard, to be validated, and to be cared for not just by a therapist, but by the people around you. I’m sorry your parents don’t seem to get it, and I know how exhausting that must be. But please, don’t mistake their lack of understanding for a lack of worth in you. You matter. Your feelings are real, and your pain is not something you have to carry alone.  

I know it’s hard to believe right now, but the way you’re feeling isn’t permanent. Depression is a liar it tells you that things will always be this way, that nothing will get better, but that’s not the truth. The fact that you’re here, reaching out, shows that deep down, there’s still a part of you that wants to hold on. And I want you to hold on too.  

If you ever need to talk, vent, or just have someone sit with you in the darkness, I’m here. You are not a burden. You are not alone. And you deserve kindness, from others and from yourself.  

Please, if the thoughts of self-harm get stronger, reach out to a crisis helpline or someone you trust. You don’t have to go through this on your own. You are worthy of love, care, and a future that isn’t filled with this pain. And I believe, truly, that future is still possible for you.

User Profile: warmheartedDime5718
warmheartedDime5718 March 19th, 2025

you're not alone you message me whenever

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User Profile: diligentPlace3267
diligentPlace3267 OP March 20th, 2025

@warmheartedDime5718 hey thanks for the support looking forawrd to chat

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