@Kendallj28 are you starting to spiral?🙁 depression is like a monster that comes unannounced and true to take over your brain😥 but you don't have to suffer alone, we are here for you ❤ I'm here for you ❤ I know how bad depression can get, hugs you tightly ❤
Been dealing with depression for then three years now
@Kendallj28 hugs you tightly ❤❤ just remember storms come but they pass, just like this will🙂 ❤ always reach out here when you need a listening ear ❤❤
Thanks
I need someone to talk to
@Kendallj28 hey honey ❤ I'm here 🙂 tell me what's on your mind
I’m thinking about unfriending my long distance bf on *** he doesn’t talk to me much anymore and its like he’s pushing me away
@Kendallj28 sits beside you and hugs you tightly ❤ if you think it would be best to move on, then that's the right choice ❤ long distance relationships can be very hard🙁 I'm sorry sweetie 🙁 this can't be easy on you
Yeah idk why guys i date would treat me so badly
@Kendallj28 you've had bad experiences before?🙁 some people think about themselves first, and don't care if they hurt others. I'm sorry sweetie 🙁 how long have you been dating this guy?
This guy two years and i have had three bad experiences with guys before
@Kendallj28 that's sad 😢 sorry sweetie. You gotta do what's right for you ok ❤ maybe breaking up with him would be the best thing to do. You don't want to stay in a relationship that makes you feel sad. I've never actually been in a relationship, I don't ever plan to either. So I'm not great with relationship advice. But I'm here, I'm good at listening, and giving hugs 🙂 ❤
I might not talk to unless he’s ready to talk to me and if he does
@Kendallj28 maybe be straight with your concerns about the relationship with him, tell him you need to talk, and then when he answers, tell him your feelings ❤ relationships are built on honesty do don't be afraid ❤
I told him before and he’s been working three jobs and time difference
@Kendallj28 oh ok that's a lot of things to be happening, for this to work properly🙁 but like I said if it's to much for you, or making you unhappy. Then honey you gotta do what's right for you
@Kendallj28 sorry for intruding. long distance is pretty hard, I've had it for a year and it was ***, could you guys meet to talk a bit more before you spring this up on him. cause it could be the disease talking rn, maybe he doesn't think things are as bad as they are and doesn't get your current state of mind. idk i'm a guy and we're pretty dumb most of the time
Don’t be sorry and yeah it’s hard
@Kendallj28 i'm also saying this cause being alone doesn't usually help and even if he's away, just having that hotline sometimes feels good no?
I know what you are saying
@Kendallj28 ok. sorry for intruding on your stuff. hope everything works out
Don’t be sorry
@easyAvocado3791 thankyou for jumping in ❤❤ it's always good to hear different perspectives so thanks sweetie ❤
@Kendallj28 sorry kendall for late replys, I'm actually in hospital right now, so sorry sweetie ❤ do you think avocado is right, maybe talking about it to him may help ❤ and yeah depression might be talking so maybe just take a break for yourself, and just talk to him when your ready ❤
Don’t be sorry I know what its like to be in the hospital unfortunately my depression gets worse everyday
@Kendallj28 have you talked to your doctor about it getting worse?? Maybe there's something they can give you or suggest.
Not much I tried different things and I might try look for something
@Kendallj28 yes being alone when depressed is not a good thing, and I think perhaps talking to your doctor again night be a good idea ❤
@Kendallj28 sorry to hear... honestly, and not to say its infallible but when I have these delicate subjects I try to take care of them, be it messaging or calling, out in the open on the street. cause I know if I stay in bed I'll be overthinking all of it, so out there I just feel a bit more... human? idk if it's good advice for u but probably not harmful to try if u don't already do it
when i get depressed I try to find something hopefully to get my mind off things
@Kendallj28 does it usually work?
Sometimes it does its better then being bored
@Kendallj28 what are your hobbies and interests??
I like to sing and dance and sometimes soccer when i have time
@Kendallj28 oh wow! So your quite a active person 🙂 that's great. Do you make music playlists for different moods?? You might not always feel like soccer, especially when your feeling so low. But perhaps just kicking a ball around might help, or a little walk. When I'm depressed I find doing art helps, just expressing yourself you know. I also find sitting in the garden under the willow tree, watching the sunrise and listening to the birds sing, always brings my mood up ❤
When i have time not doing anything i will watch YouTube and listen to music mostly right now working a lot
@Kendallj28 that's good, anything as a distraction is good ❤ and I hear you tube can be very funny😁 what about xmas do you celebrate xmas?
Yeah i do celebrate Christmas