Self support . How are you , dear ?
Hey everyone. My name is Nancy. I've been depressed for a long time and only recently I'm starting to learn how to live and be in reality again. Life is starting to be interesting and more diverse. I am faced with reality and problems that were postponed a long time ago and I have to solve them now. It 's very hard for me not to give up, there are days when I cope , but there are still days when I cry and I'm afraid of falling back into the abyss and not coming back . There are so many things to do and it's not always something pleasant and fun. I'm so scared not to break down in front of all these difficulties. I don't quite understand what I want and in which direction to move. I'm being pulled in different directions and it feels like I'm going to burst. I try to repeat to myself every day that I can handle it , that I have a place to live and what I have , but there will always be problems and there is nothing catastrophic about it . I get lonely and in these moments more than ever I need care and support. Without any stupid advice and guidance on how and what I should do . I just want to be hugged, listened to and accepted.
@lavenderBunny7624 hi Nancy I'm lola ❤ I'm just gonna wrap you up in a cosy blanket and hug you ❤ I'm so proud of you for making it through that dark abyss. It's very inspirational when someone finally sees the light. So whatever your doing, your doing a great job ❤❤ and we are here to listen and support you, judgement free 🙂❤ well done for reaching out today ❤
Thank you very much. I cry when I see so much support in people. I would like everyone to be able to cope with their problems and overcome the darkness inside. It's so important.🥹💕
@lavenderBunny7624 yes it really is ❤ I'm supporting a man here in one of the forums. Who's lived in the dark all his life. I can only hope oneday, he can finally see the light ❤ I've lived in the dark too, so I know how hard it can be. So Thank you for inspiring others ❤🙂❤
@lavenderBunny7624 Breaking down isn't giving up<3 It just means that you need a little break from being strong for so long. It's alright to feel overwhelmed, that doesn't means you're not grateful for all the things you do have. You're already handling it :) Your struggles matter just as much, don't let the guilt or any kind of comparison make you feel like the efforts that you're making matter any less. I hope life keeps getting more and more beautiful for you everyday<3