Too needy
How can i overcome being needy?
I have really Bad attachement issues and always act needy when i like a guy.
Ive been texting a guy i started liking for like one month now. We talked about my Problems and he said that its okay and that we will work on it. But now he wants to take a contact break because i act too needy and he thinks it would be better for me. I respect his choice even tho it hurts me but this *** just always happens to me.
I am really tired of being like that because no one really knows how to Deal with me being like this. And its embarresing being so clingy and annoying even if i don't want to be like this. It pushes people away and they distance themself from me and that really hurts.
At least you're willing to be vulnerable and acknowledge your issues, a lot of people don't self reflect and see themselves as perfect.
When you're infatuated it is difficult to focus on other things but I would still push myself to do whatever else gives me fulfillment.
Other people, friends, family, volunteering, work, hobbies or interests. Your mind can still wander but at least you know you're doing something for yourself.
Also maybe you'll have to compromise on limiting communication so it's healthy for you both. Instead of daily, every other day, or every two/three days?
@forcefulBeach929 you can be needy with me
