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WHAT IS FORGIVENESS???

User Profile: decisiveSea4539
decisiveSea4539 May 26th, 2024

Forgiveness is forgetting and moving on. I say this because I've realised that the only times I have been 100 percent sure that I have forgiven someone is when I have forgotten what they did. But let’s be realistic, forgetting is the hardest part when it comes to forgiving so I guess forgiving is remembering and not being affected negatively by what you remember.

Forgiveness is a process and most times it starts when you forgive yourself and accept that you are struggling to forgive someone/ something.

Normally the trick thing about forgiveness is that it happens naturally sometimes. Just because I want to forgive doesn't mean I will forgive as fast as I want. The heart and the mind are different and both want different things when in comes to forgiveness.


Anyway…i think a lot more but I would like to know what others of you think about forgiveness and what your journey is like with forgiving.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 May 26th, 2024

@decisiveSea4539 many people here talk about forgivness. It's taught that forgivness means you move on. But in some cases I don't think forgiving is possible. I will never forgive my owners, or other cults, and traffiking too. Something's are unforgivable, unforgettable. So I'm not even gonna attempt to forgive and forget.

I hope you find a way to help you though ❤