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Hello,
I wanted to say something. Im 26 years old and I've never had a relationship in my life a. Never had a girlfriend, nor have I ever been on a date and still a virgin . I always spent time studying all the time. Went to university and working full time while doing a masters part time. I do get paid well and if you think my life is the best or close to it then you are wrong because my life sucks alot because I am alone. I sleep in my bed alone and have no body in my life. In university, I had the opportunity to go out and party but decided against because I was told my life after I graduate would be better but if anything its alot worse. I try to be nice and respectful and confident however Ive been told by lots of people that I'm ugly. That my face is naturally ugly and this is from people from all different walks of life. I do get made fun of for being a virgin and im okay with that but I've learned that I don't deserve happiness, and now I try to make others happy even if its destroys my happiness which now my happiness is dead. I want you all to know is if you've had a partner or a date or anything in your life with someone else than you are better than me in every way. Please remember that and cherish it and be grateful of it.
Thank you for reading this post!
@diplomaticBirch7532 look at animals, for example wolfs. Not every wolf gets to be the alpha male who gets sex. But all wolfs in the pack is still needed and fills a purpose. Every wolf in the pack contributes to the survival and procreation of their species. They are selfless working for the whole wolf species rather than for themselves. Without the non-alphas the alpha male and female are completely helpless. Non-alpha females produce milk even though they haven't had cubs, all helping to feed the cubs which aren't theirs. Because the important thing for them is that their species survive and the wolfs with the best genes procreate.
Everyone wants to have a partner, wants to be loved and attractive to others. And not getting it is really tough. Its very hard and not at all easy. It could well be one of the toughest challenges a human can have. But if you could accept being a non-aplha, feeling happyness and gratefullness for those who do find someone, accept that your purpose may be to help others to like themselves so they can find a partner. Whats important is that those who have fairly good genes find eachother and procreate. Try to see other peoples good traits and their beauty, help them realize it. Give them compliments and simply think positively about them not judging or look down on them.
There are also less attractive women. Be humble. Don't look for attractive women, look for women who are less attractive and try make them feel better by seeing their beauty and being kind and understanding to them. Let them be themselves and don't judge, so you help them like themselves, help them be themselves and find a partner. That partner may not be you but thats ok. The important thing is them being happy.
@diplomaticBirch7532 awww huggs you ❤squeezes you tightly ❤ there is no such thing as beautiful or ugly, it's just a concept that's been greatly taken advantage off. And noone is better than anyone. It doesn't matter where you come from, it doesnt matter who s rich and who s poor, whos had it easy and whos had it hard, we all hurt the same ways we all feel the same ways, we are all human. your not old swetie, you can change your own path. The key is confidence. Good luck ❤❤
Hi sending you a virtual hug aswell tightly squeezed. Yeah I do believe beauty is subjective but so many ppl calling me ugly definitely ruined my self esteem. I lost all my self confidence. And getting it back will take time. These ppl who said I was ugly were experts in relationships, theyve had multiple partners in there life so they could be right. But I also agree the topic is so far fetched. I've tried to stay confident throughout but it is difficult hearing these mean things . Never been out a date at this age, I feel like something is wrong with me. I just want a wife and lots of children and nothing else.
thanks for replying and best of luck!!
If it makes u feel any better , my best friend is a virgin and in their 40s