the last my dad said to me
is that i am the best house guest because i dont ask for anything. this haunts me everyday since because i never advocate for myself i was raised to just accept whats given to. this makes me so sad because i never get what i want because of it. and no one will like me if i ask for something the occaisional time i have its the last time i hear from them. im so unlovable the slightest incpnvenience is reason to drop me.
@jetmorph I'm really sorry you're feeling this way. You are not unlovable, and your needs and desires matter just as much as anyone else's. Being considerate and not wanting to burden others is kind, but that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve to ask for things or advocate for yourself. The right people, the ones who truly care about you, won’t leave just because you express a need or a want. I know it’s hard when past experiences make it feel like asking for anything pushes people away, but you are worth being heard, supported, and cared for. You don’t have to accept less than you deserve
@313ali its accept less or having nothing. some people dont get to be happy until they finally die
@jetmorph I'm really sorry you're feeling this way. It’s hard when it feels like you have to choose between accepting less or having nothing at all. But please know that you deserve happiness, and you don’t have to settle for a life where you feel unseen or unheard. Sometimes it feels like there’s no way out, but even in those darkest moments, there’s always hope for things to change. You are worthy of happiness, and you don’t have to just accept things as they are now. I believe that with time and support, things can get better. You’re not alone in this
@313ali but i am nothing but alone. soul crushingly alone. not a single person wants a to be my partner or have a thing to do with me.
@jetmorph I’m really sorry to hear that things turned out that way. It’s so hard when a friendship becomes unhealthy, and when work starts to feel impossible, especially with a boss who’s hard to please. But you made the right choice to walk away from situations that weren’t good for you. It’s a sign of strength to recognize when something isn’t working and make a change. You’re doing what’s best for your well being, and even though it’s tough right now, this can be the start of something better. If you need someone to talk to, I’m here for you