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I feel very lonely these days because I don’t have much of a support system. I wish 7cups had an option to build genuine friendships too. I do understand that the rules are made for safety, but sometimes it feels unfair that everyone is seen as a possible predator.
As adults, I feel we should also have the right to choose what’s safe for us and safeguard ourselves. What hurts me more is that when I share my desire for genuine connection, people judge me for it. it was not like i was breaking rules i was just sharing how i feel about it.
I was a leader here, so I know the rules well, but right now I’m going through a very rough phase in my life. I just feel lonely and wish for some real, genuine connection.
@EmpathyS
I'm sorry you are lonely and I understand the desire for real connection and genuine friendships!
I know you used the word, Predator, but realistically we cannot ever fully know what people's genuine intentions are because it's easy to say what one wants to behind a screen, so as hard as it is, we have to be mindful!
I hope you find good and genuine connections here, because there are many!
💜💕
really true *** post