Broken Heart
Hi everyone
so recently i broke up with my boyfriend. we live in different countries and its been super difficult. i know it sounds crazy but i love him so much but he kept breaking his promises and treating me badly. i know the right thing was to get away but i love him so so much and i dont know what to do...
im currently in exams for my final year in high school and its just so tough. i have no motivation to get out of bed
i just wonder if theres any chace of someone loving me for me. i thought i found my soulmate. with my boyfriend i finally saw light in the world and i saw him as a signfrom the universe that things would be ok. i had always been told that my gift from the world would come and i finally found it. and now its gone
@gentleJackfruit2466
Hi there,
You have been through it, and just about to start your final year too. How stressful.
Yes, there is every chance. And that person will treat you with respect and consideration , from the beginning. If they don't, you have made a mistake, no matter how attractive you may find them.
It is important to prepare yourself for meeting that person, by beginning on the long road of learning to love and respect yourself for who you truly are.
Once you commit to that journey, I'm sure that you will meet the right person for you now.
What do you think?
@gentleJackfruit2466 I am going through the same. My ex is the only person that i would open up to, the only person who actually cared for me, listened not to be nice, but because she wanted to.. and now shes gone. Ive had deprssion the last year and a half of our relationship and i knw that is what drove her away.. my lack of motivation killed the relationship, it felt like i just couldnt do anything which sucks cause i used to do so much for her. She was the only person that could put some light in my life and help me relax. now i have nothing... and she has a new boyfirend to love. I know your relationship was very serious and it sounds like you believe he is the perfect peron for you. That type of breakup isnt something that will be cured in a day, a week, or maybe even several months. People say you will find someone who is even better for you - but to me that sounds like it wont be for another few years, and i cant imagine being alone for another few years. How you deal with this is completly up to you. i had to cut my ex completly out of my life because the hate i felt inside of me was too much to deal with. you may still want to keep in touch with him, but if it only brings sadness/negative emotions into your life it is ruining your chances of being happy again. I believe your first step is to decide to keep him in your life or remove him from it. I hope you have friends that truly care for you, i dont have that but im sure having a friend or two that genuinly cares for you will help so much. Sorry for the long paragraph, i hope you can find the right steps to be happy again. - James
