Feeling Lost

So lately I've been feeling lost and married 36 no kids have a dog cat some fish I feel like I live a fulfilled life but I don't even know what makes me happy anymore I don't know where or what I should be doing with my life people are always telling me oh you should go out and do things and I'm just like go out and do what spend money want a broke I go for hikes but you go any hike for so long and that I find that boring afterwards It's hard for me to make friends because I socially isolate myself and I'm awkward in conversations because I don't have interesting stories to tell so it's weird plus I'm a stoner so even more weird cause people around me don't smoke. I kind of feel like I'm just all over the place can't make any sense of which way I'm going and if what I'm doing is right and if what I'm feeling is even a feeling cause I don't even know what to do with that