Feeling like I'm not good enough
Hi everyone. The past few days I've been feeling sad and angry. The way my grandma is with me makes me feel depressed and like I'm not good enough. She compares me to my cousin and some of the comments she makes hurts me. It's not even what she says but how she says it. You probably wouldn't notice at first, but my grandma shows favouritism. And then she pretends like she didn't do anything hurtful. I know you can't control the way people are and that some people can't change. I just wish she would see how much her actions hurt me. I honestly don't feel like living at home anymore.
Above all I think she loves you endlessly ❤️Just don’t forget to spend time with her i am sure she can be best friends with you 🥺Even I thought my grandma was like that but now after spending some time and listening to her she became my best friend❤️I was also jelous of how my grandma loved my sister more but trust me just go stay with her tell her that you love ❤️ There is no words to describe how powerful and loving their touch is
@hjkfxhudzjnbv With all due respect, I feel like you don't understand what I mean. I can't blame you, though, because you don't know the whole story. ❤
Hey there, I can most definitely relate with u with some family members who favor others over others. Unfortunately there is no changing people but there are things u can do and iv done them and they worked for me. 1. U can sit her down and tell her in a very respectful way how her ways of doing things affects u. 2. U can speak to another elder who can approach her as we know how diff it is to approach elders. 3. If u are working u can get out of there. My suggestion is not that u fight and move out but that u plan that aside and when all is sorted tell them u feel like becoming independent.