How to find dreams and goals?
Whenever I talk to someone about motivation, and how hard it is to me to have any, they often say I just have to focus on my goals and seek my dreams so I can find the strenght to do things.
But what if I don't have any dreams or goals? When I say that people think that I'm strange or lying about it because everyone is supposed to have dreams. They ask what I like to do then so I can focus on doing what I like, and I don't know how to answer that either. I think I don't really like doing anything in particular, feels like I'm just doing what's necessary and that's it.
What can I do about it?
@LCarv
I feel the same, there are things I don't mind doing, but I can't say I enjoy them either, just doing the necessary and otherwise passing time.
I hope I can find some enjoyment in doing volunteering work this coming year. I guess my goal is to be a better person, whatever that really means.
Seems even harder that I didn't really get any morals or ideals from my upbringing, mostly just told I shouldn't have been born or similar sentiments
@Madaraismyspiritanimal I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you find it too.
