I can't help but hate Men so much
I have an intense hatred towards Men. I notice that most Men's hobbies are mostly just drugs, alcoholism, pornn addictions, commenting on Woman's bodies, Dark humour, insulting people. An awful lot of them have anger issues and love to brag about how they used Woman for their pleasure just to please their mates while the poor Woman get hurt and suffer emotional and physical abuse from them. They even make fun of the Woman that got raped, molested in the past. I learnt that being a Man means showing as little empathy as possible and always putting on this smug face. Being a Man means hurting people and then not feeling guilty afterwards. Their is nothing good about it at all. They then encourage other Men to be and act the same. I also noticed the only Woman they get on with are the toxic types.
Edited by Asher, 8/21/21
Well this is surely toxic masculinity. But with time things are changing. Men are developing emotions. We still have cavemen instincts (men and women both) where men wants to survive and mate and women wants protection. We humans are evolving slowly but society suffers setbacks and wars which brings our emotional development to ground zero. Surely human emotion will slowly adapt to a society which has plenty mindset rather than scarcity. And as men many have evolved to think beyond controling others.
@purpleTurtle5537
Cavemen existed millions of years ago. I'd expect we have evolved by this time but Men don't seem to ever evolve and I doubt they will in the future. It doesn't look like they are changing their perspective on Woman and the world. They just want to be stuck as animals forever and they don't care either. They don't want to evolve. They are too stubborn.
@purpleTurtle5537
Another thing is that Woman have already evolved because we don't chase the strongest guys anymore. Men still think we care about their muscle, strength and money. Fucckk noo, I would rather date a nice, caring guy that is considerate and I don't listen to my biological instsinct. Woman go for all types of guys now days and some stay single and independent. Men still need Sexxxuall partners to get through life.
Well the data from Match.com and Tinder clearly indicates that women still date taller men and a tall man on average has more sexual partners than shorter man. This is caveman instinct in women and you can find it in many research articles. And I have known many men throughout history who don't mate. Celibacy among men in South Asia is considered very respectable. So, it invalidates your point that men needs sexual partners to get through life.
@purpleTurtle5537
That is so true on dating apps but a lot of Women on there are insecure. There are only a few Woman that use those dating apps. I don't really care much about a Man's height though as long as they are kind and caring.
@reservedWater5739 @purpleTurtle5537 yikes there is a lot of stereotyping and weird ideas from both of you. Caveman thoughts?? Who is teaching you that...it's not even remotely true. Men are still developing emotions, what?? There is really no difference between men and women, and nonbinary people, we are all humans with an equal amount of "evolution", which is very very far from some weird "caveman days". Very bad information to be spreading around, it absolves people of responsibility for their action and prevents people from thinking they can do better and that people around them can be better. We are human though, and humans come in a range of being awful and being awesome.
I can completely understand that having seemingly constant interactions with the "awful" side of men can really skew your view of them as a whole. But it kind of sounds like you've just happened to come into contact with a lot of, well, shitty guys. But I assure you, there are equally an amount of men who do not do these things, and actually think men who are like that are garbage. There are awful people of any gender, and it always sucks to have to constantly come across them. But it doesn't mean that all people are awful just because they are of a certain gender, you know? There are so many different people in the world, with so many different personalities, upbringings, ideologies...there is good out there too, even when the bad seems to be so prominent. I hope you can meet more positive examples of men who don't act as horribly as those guys do, who can help you start developing a better idea of men. And, more importantly, who just don't add such negativity and awfulness to your life, you don't deserve that, you deserve people who treat you with respect, dignity, and make you feel comfortable
How is your relationship with your father? Do you have any resentment towards him? Sometimes hating a mother father results in hating men women. Is there a man that hurt you that you still struggle with that pain? Sometimes hating men stems from that. Not all men have toxic masculinity. Don't hate men, because you will attract a man that hates women / has hate towards this mother. Women that say "all men are dogs, all men are the same" have never been with or expiernced a real man. Good men still are out there don't lose hope. You just haven't met one yet. Heal the things in yourself, so you don't attract a toxic wounded man.....a wounded man turns into mistreatment to women. Good luck and i hope this helps.
@vickiee
I do have a good relationship with my father. It is just when I hear other Woman talk about their experiences with Men and that a lot of Men are bad. I hear my teacher saying that is just typical Men behaviour. It gets to me eventually when I hear people talking about Men and I start to get angry towards them. People make jokes about it too but I don't think it is funny anymore.
@reservedWater5739
I got the idea from hearing other peoples experiences and them bringing the subject up.