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I can't stand it

User Profile: Trinidad
Trinidad September 11th, 2014

My parents spend all day arguing and I don't know what to do.
My emotional stability is very low and things like this makes everything gets out of control.
I have no one to speak and I feel like I'm about to explode.
Everything is getting worse and if I want to get better I have to make it out myself.
I don't want to add a problem to the list but my depression is killing me and my mom don't know anything about.
I just want everything to be alright.

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User Profile: Trish2
Trish2 September 12th, 2014

I know how u feel. I'm in a very similar situation. Don't give up. Things will get better :)

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User Profile: Trinidad
Trinidad OP September 12th, 2014

I hope so c:

User Profile: Vinita
Vinita September 12th, 2014

Totally off topic, so please forgive me, but do I know you?

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User Profile: Jasmine212
Jasmine212 September 12th, 2014

I completely understand what you're going through. I'm stuck in the same situation right now and it has caused me to develop some awful anxiety and symptoms of depression. If you ever need someone to speak to, I'm here for you! Sometimes having someone to vent to, who won't judge you, is helpful in relieving some of the anxiety.

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User Profile: Trinidad
Trinidad OP September 12th, 2014

Yeah, my anxiety is freaking me out.
It would be nice to have someone to talk

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User Profile: Apersonisme
Apersonisme September 12th, 2014

It will be a difficult thing to do but maybe you should sit your parents down together and tell them how you feel. Maybe all the fighting and arguing will stop when they realise the effect its having on you

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User Profile: Trinidad
Trinidad OP September 12th, 2014

They argue because they can't hold their thoughts and when they let it go it's like a tornado.
I know they love me, but there's so much shit in the middle and I don't want to bother with my problems.

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User Profile: Vinita
Vinita September 12th, 2014

Maybe you can make things better for them by teling them that they're arguing is really affecting you negatively, because you care about them both, so when things get violent between them, it makes you worried sick and ask them if they think they can do anything to make it better, because it would help them as well, to better get a hold of their arguing and lessen it. Because arguing is healthy in a relationship, but when it's overdone, is when things get bad

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User Profile: lISTENER211
lISTENER211 September 15th, 2014

What does it mean when I am arguing with myself. As if there are literally two different sides of battling for my life. I feel like I have 2 completely different people inside of me but I don't know which one to listen to, because I don't know which one is really me