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User Profile: NuBella
NuBella February 24th, 2019

I have been feeling completely out of tune for a while. I have lost motivation to finish my college assignments. Every time I go out I always embarrass myself by doing something stupid or acting slow. I

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User Profile: ThisIs543
ThisIs543 February 25th, 2019

@NuBella

I have been feeling completely out of tune for a while.

I'm sorry you've been feeling out of tune. It's such a lonely and isolating feeling, to feel like you're out of step with everything going on around you.

It sounds like you've got a lot to deal with. It's natural to feel overwhelmed in college. It's especially hard because college looks SO FUN in TV and movies, but it's really an awful lot of work, and on top of academic pressure you have the social pressure of figuring out your own way in the world for the first time.

What's going on with your sister? Are you living with her?

I'm a good deal older than you, and I also have that feeling that I should have a better handle on things by now. The best I can say is that I've gotten better at being patient with myself while I do figure things out.

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User Profile: NuBella
NuBella OP February 25th, 2019

@ThisIs543 We both live with our mother. I dont know whats going on with her. Its like she has something to say about everything I do. When I cook she always finds a fault in it. When we had a girls day out with our mom we both put on makeup and she walked in the room as I was putting it on and looked at me with a smirk as if I was just full of myself. I have said to myself that I will just ignore her and stay away from her until I save enough money to get my own place.

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