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I don't seem to care about anything anymore and i don't know what to even do anymore.

User Profile: hardworkingMaple5663
hardworkingMaple5663 September 25th, 2018

I'm struggling with moving forward in life and i generally feel trapped in the situation that i am in now. I failed highschool , i don't have any friends , im overweight , i feel tired all the time and barely have any energy , and i don't have the motivation do anything about it , i'm trying to find a job or do something to forward my life but im met with dead ends and the constant looming parents who want me to get somewhere always puts some kind of worry on me but i don't care about anything at all for some reason and i don't know what to do and everyday im in my room most of the time without any real motivation in the world to do something about my situation. I tried to find help for my problems and that has met with failure and i don't understand what to do anymore. So im trying to reach out here to see if there is any answers.

Also i have a thing called "aspergers" if that helps anyone understand this.

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User Profile: Littlebluebug
Littlebluebug September 25th, 2018

@hardworkingMaple5663

That's so much you're dealing with! There are so many different stressors you outlined, and I can only imagine how overwhelming that would be. It seems like these stressors are pretty paralyzing for you and that they keep you from moving forward. I'm really proud of you for seeking help-even if didn't work, because you are here, still trying to feel better, and sometimes there's nothing harder than to keep trying after hitting a roadblock.

Between society and your parents, they seem to be putting a lot of pressure on you to succeed when, at the same time, you're struggling to maintain motivation in your life. I don't blame you for wanting to stay in your room and get some peace from all these stressors. You have shown some incredible strength coming to 7 Cups and seeking hlep. If ever you want to talk more, just message me, and I'll get back to you the earliest I can.

Hang in there! I know you have the strength to stay strong, even if you don't see it.