I just wanna be happy
Im depressed because of the bullys and being so alone with noone to talk to. my grades are horrible i listen to mcr and bvb, i think about self harm man, i just want to be happy for once..
What kind of bullies? How old are you? Did you know that, in reality, those people who bully others just do it to look cool and make themselves feel better? Most bullies come from screwed up families, so they bother other kids at school to take out their own anger. You have no one to talk to? No family/friends? I never could really talk to my mom .. I always talked to my grandpa. And self-harm .. that's just weak. Weak people do that crap. I never saw the logic in self harm, but now I think it's just frickin weak. You cut yourself, you can get an infection if you constantly do that! Well, you can talk to me?
@TransAm85 Some bullies do find an out from their personal struggles by taking it out on others, right on! Sometimes, though, we really don't know what drives them to behave the way they do. Assumptions can bedangerous.
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I understand what you are trying to say. I wasn't trying to offend anyone regarding the self harm .. I just don't get that. It has become so popular these days for people to hurt or kill themselves and it's so so sad. I had two friends that killed themselves overdosing on heroin. Both had problems going on in their life, but not so horrible to OD and die! I have a lot of problems in my own life .. but I don't want to die yet! Everyone has a reason for being here. Even though there are billions of people on this earth .. each one of us is important for some reason and our family and we all have certain unique qualities/skills. So killing yourself is taking away from maybe our next Steve Jobs, or Bill Gates, or .. Hugh Hefner even! lol I mean .. everyone is important. That's what I was trying to incinuate.
Bullys are either insecure about themselves or bored. music will get you through everything. Especially mcr they've personally helped me through so much. Your grades, they're important, but your mental health is more important. And as of self harm, get an accountability partner that will make sure that you're always okay and if your not, they will be able to try to help you through the obstacle. I know you want to be happy, and you will get there. And if you'd like, I might be able to become that accountability partner. Because I struggle with the same things if we are being completely honest.