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User Profile: Pitmaster77
Pitmaster77 February 4th, 2020

My wife left 2 months ago. She left me with the kids, a mountain of debt, and a new busines. I feel so lonely and betrayed. Its hard to find meaning in life now. I have my kids but I feel like a complete failure in their eyes. I don't know how to break out of this funk.

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User Profile: tinycactus809
tinycactus809 February 4th, 2020

Sitting with you, offering hugs, love and support 💖🧡💛💚💙💜

User Profile: AlphaPheonix4720
AlphaPheonix4720 February 4th, 2020

@Pitmaster77 Your kids will not think you are a failure. Trust me. They will idolise you.

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User Profile: Pitmaster77
Pitmaster77 OP February 4th, 2020

Thank y'al. Just 6 months ago. I was so motivated. Saw the whole world in front of me. Having a hard time getting out of bed now. I don't feel good about anything I do. Feels like this hopelessness and lonliness has no end in sight. Over the past 5 years she made sure she ran every friend out of my life. Finding it hard to start over...

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User Profile: AlphaPheonix4720
AlphaPheonix4720 February 4th, 2020

@Pitmaster77 I know what it's like having someone like that around you. It's horrible. I had trouble picking myself up after it. But eventually, an Angel (Figurative) of a friend came along and fixed everything. I hope you find your angel.

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User Profile: Pitmaster77
Pitmaster77 OP February 4th, 2020

I sure hope so. The wounds are so fresh right now. Don't think my eyes are right. They burn all the time. I know everyone can see my pain. She moved in with a married couple she is having a relationship with only 5ish miles away. She acts like I am crazy for being upset and depressed about the situation. Says its normal and everything is gonna be ok. I guess it will but dang. Just can not believe she done this to our family. Kids 13 and 16.

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User Profile: AlphaPheonix4720
AlphaPheonix4720 February 4th, 2020

@Pitmaster77 Nasty. I hope they'll understand that she abandoned them and don't think that you're keeping them from her.

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User Profile: Pitmaster77
Pitmaster77 OP February 4th, 2020

@AlphaPheonix4720 They know what is going on. Kids refuse to visit her at that house. She is free to pick them up for dinner or give them rides here and there anytime she wants. They know she abandoned us.

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User Profile: feelNeglected77
feelNeglected77 February 4th, 2020

@Pitmaster77

User Profile: feelNeglected77
feelNeglected77 February 4th, 2020

John 15

I am the true vine, and my Father is the vinedresser. Every branch in me that does not bear fruit he takes away, and every branch that does bear fruit he prunes, that it may bear more fruit. Already you are clean because of the word that I have spoken to you. Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me. I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing. ...