I want to cut
I've been clean for three years.I thought Iwas getting better.I never contemplated suicide, but I don't know what to do. I'm sinking in sadness and I'm only 14 years old.How can I live like this?
Had you ever considered talking to someone you trust about your issues?
I do.I tell everything to my best friend, but he's not with me so it doesn't work like it should.
What about talking to a counselor? Since you're still in school, I presumed there will be a school counselor you can talk to.
You could try talking to a teacher that you trust? Or one that you just really like as a teacher? Maybe they could help you or get you the help that you need. You've done so well being clean for 3 years, don't give up now. Teachers will always be there to try and help you because that's they're job and they actually do care. Try speaking to one that you really trust and things might become easier for you. Don't give up now, stay as strong as you can because you deserve to live a happy life.
I guess I'll do it. Thank you so much.
I'm glad. I really hope that things get better and easier for you. You've done so well being clean for 3 years and I'm proud of you for that. I honestly believe that you can get through this as well. Good luck :)
My best way to always avoid self harming again is to surround yourself with others when you get the urge. If you're sitting alone in your room thinking about everything, you're going to be more likely to want to, as opposed to out with friends, or even just talking to your parents. 14 is still really young, you have your whole life ahead of you. Three years is a big accomplishment, I know you can get through this.
thank you for believe in me.
Hey I cut For 4 years and to be honest the more you cut the more worseit'sgoing to get if you want to kill yourself don't do it ending your life for a temporary problem it's not worth it I mean your your some body and you are way to yung for this kindastuff I'mpretty sure your love buy ppl and your family and idk if you have a kik but if you do and you want to talk my kik is dtwho
I started to self harm when i was only 8 but it was more like hitting myself. Now I think cuts are easier to hide. idk. it's hard.
Hey I cut For 4 years and to be honest the more you cut the more worseit'sgoing to get if you want to kill yourself don't do it ending your life for a temporary problem it's not worth it I mean your your some body and you are way to yung for this kindastuff I'mpretty sure your love buy ppl and your family and idk if you have a kik but if you do and you want to talk my kik is dtwho
Hey I cut For 4 years and to be honest the more you cut the more worseit'sgoing to get if you want to kill yourself don't do it ending your life for a temporary problem it's not worth it I mean your your some body and you are way to yung for this kindastuff I'mpretty sure your love buy ppl and your family and idk if you have a kik but if you do and you want to talk my kik is dtwho
When dealing with self harm it is completely understandable to want to relapse. However, I believe you are strong enought to overcome these urges. Have you tried distractrions? Good ones can include: drawing, going for a walk, watching a comedy movie, ect.
I've try everything. I don't know what to do anymore
Hey :) I am so sorry that you are facing such a traumatizing experience darling, judging by your name, it seems you're from trinidad? Am i right? Well I am from there as well, I'd be more than happy to speak to you, so just message me and I'll respond when I get the chance too. Stay strong love xx
Wait, sorry , that previous comment was from my member account, my listener account is vinilovesyou so you can message me from there
I think this is the only thing that's keeping me away from cutting. I try to focus on the good things and not in the bad thoughts.
I am so glad to know that you have a wonderful distraction, because it's important to distract yourself
I know if I'm alone by myself something bad could happen. I mostly try to listen music or watch tv. that helps a lot
Wonderful :) I wish you best of luck in finding other coping methods, I know it can be hard to quit, some people never truly quit, but you ,must know at least, that there is a very thin line between cutting and killing/damaging yourself, and if you aren't careful, there are many risks. Your life is more important than any of the problems you face, because you matter :)
Yeah, i know. Thank you c:
Every time you feel like cutting, think of something that makes you smile or laugh. That could be a baby smiling, one of your friends, a family member or a funny experience or line from a film or TV show.