One relationship that makes me feel sad is......
My father. He is constantly every single day saying I am: useless, worthless, I should kill myself, pathetic, failure, ugly to look at, he spreads rumors and lies about me to anyone and everyone to make me look like a horrible person, I know this is not a normal way of family, I need soneone or anyone to show me what I can do. I lost my wife to divorce due to a miscarriage, I lost my job from the emotional abuse of my father. I am begging for help. Pls help me.
@ambitiousCircle5689
I'm sorry your father said all those things to you and other people, and that you had to go through that. It is true what you said; this is not normal and it is emotionally abusive. No one should be hearing those things from their parent.
I am glad you found this site. Freely allowing yourself to say what you feel and what you think is a good start. :)
We have some Listeners who would be free to talk to you, but if you think you would rather seek help from a therapist, you can find those who are online through here:
https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/
@bunnyssong I prayed every night..... A silent prayer to be answered " when will it end," Am I able to reclaim and get my life back together from all the broken pieces. If yes......? How is that possible?
@ambitiousCircle5689 it is possible :) I personally know people in real life who had to crawl away from their parents' abusiveness. As for the how, well, healing is different for each person. I could give a general answer, but it might not necessarily work for you.
One of the people I mentioned, she found healing through art. She makes beautiful paintings. I know someone who did so by physically moving away, and finding the right people who could give her the love she needs. Another person, he healed from his faith in God.
