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Problems with school. I'm a university student.

User Profile: proactiveowl33
proactiveowl33 November 26th, 2014

Hi, from where I came from the education system is pretty different, we only have six years of grade school, four years of high school and that's that. And we're off to college. I started schooling when I was 3 (nursery) then kindergarten (4) and I accelerated to first grade... I didn't take up preparatory because I am too advanced for the course, according to my teachers.

Now I'm 17 and in my second year of university. It's also the second semester here.

Lately, I've becoming depressed. You see, the environment is stressful. Not because of work but because of people around me. I can't seem to fit in and their knowledge and wisdom about things is pretty basic. And me, well, a universe is forming inside my mind. BUT I CRAVE FOR SO MUCH MORE. It isn't all about the grades... But let's face it, in a third world country like mine, getting a job isn't as easy and you need topnotch grades to be successful.

I have no problems with my grades. In fact, I'm one of the excelling students in class. But they lack passion in life. They come and go. And I don't want to surround myself with people like that...

Now we're two weeks into the second semester, and I feel so depressed... I am thinking of stopping and transfer to another school... But I've talked to my mom about this and she won't let me which just makes me sadder. In all honesty I think I'm not ready for university yet. And of course if I repeat it will show up in my credentials which will affect my future..

Please help me. I don't know what to do.

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User Profile: toughwater73
toughwater73 December 20th, 2014

Hi there. Would it be possible to talk to your mum and ask what she thinks? Otherwise have you tried going to a club or something that you enjoy, like a band or a cricket team or something? You might meet some people who you could relate to, not on intelligence but perhaps through your related interests them perhaps it would not be so lonely. Do you have friends from your high school? I know it's not the same, I went to uni hours away from anyone else I knew, but sometimes visiting a friend or talking or writing to them could help cheer me up. Otherwise is there a professor or someone you could talk to for advice? I hope you figure it out soon, it's horrible feeling alone. Remember there are always people here whon will listen to you :) you are not alone :) good luck

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User Profile: toughwater73
toughwater73 December 20th, 2014

Also, I think your mum would prefer you to be happier. This is your decision in the end. But talking to her could help :)

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