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Hi, I'm new and hurting a lot. Someone passed away in my family and it's going to be the first Christmas without her. My sister says get over it this is life and people pass away .I keep getting upset and crying . I don't know what to do. I'm sorry for if this is a stupid problem .
@Rere1621
Hello there. First of all, I'm sorry for your loss, I can only imagine how hard it is. It's not a stupid problem, nothing is stupid if it makes you feel upset.
I know this Christmas will be difficult and nothing could make it easier. I would recommend, whenever you feel like crying, try to remember this person at their best (smiling, having fun, sharing a nice moment)...
It will take time and patience to heal that hurt you feel, it might be very intense now, but don't hold on to it. Try to calm that hurt with the good memories...be kind to yourself and don't apologize for feeling this sadness.
Take your time to process this situation, we all deal with sadness in different ways.
Take care and my best wishes to you!
@Watermelon9750, thank you for your reply and help.
