Trouble with anger
Hey everyone,
Today hasn’t been awesome.
I learned that my younger sister showed up at my mom’s place this morning, asking for money and the paperwork of hers that my mom was cleaning from the apartment.
My sister was driving a car I doubt she has a license for and also mentioned that she’d broken her phone charging it in that car.
Ugh, I’m sure my mom told me these things to be honest but also so I could tell my aunt who bought that phone and pays for the line.
I resent that sort of stuff because it puts me in the position of relaying secondhand information that could change (not that my sister would tell anybody) and then her phone will be shut off because I was the one who opened my mouth.
So I’m angry. I’ve done one large load of dishes before I texted my aunt and now I’m going to do even more because I feel like trash.
Ugh
@integrityblues
Hey there,
I'm sorry to hear that today hasn't been going well for you. It sounds like a frustrating situation with your sister and the responsibility of relaying information to your aunt. It's understandable that you're feeling angry and upset about it. It's important to remember that you're not responsible for your sister's actions or the consequences that may follow. However, if you feel comfortable, you could consider having an open conversation with your sister about the situation and how it affects you. Taking care of the dishes is a productive way to channel your emotions, but remember to also take some time for self-care and find ways to de-stress. If you need someone to talk to or vent, don't hesitate to reach out. Take care ❤️
thank you
I am so sorry that I didn't see this one until now. I only see the messages that one other person has responded to because I don't have time to dig too deeply.
How are things now with your mom and sister? I know the stress that such issues cause you. @integrityblues
It’s okay, bestVase.
Nothing else has really happened. I haven’t heard from my sister, and my mom has been worried over the whole thing.
I’m just trying to focus on getting things done, keeping busy.
You are focused on the right things. You don't need to get pulled into that drama. I hope that your day was peaceful. @integrityblues
Glad to hear that there was something to brighten your day.