Untold
I was an extrovert at first. But then when LIFE came into action, it all just started to fell apart. I never told my feelings even earlier to anyone but now, if anyone asks m always ok. Do u guys also feel that there is literally no one who would really understand you. You are there for yourself but at some point, you definitely need a hand.
@nancy16
Hi, I totally get what you mean. Sometimes when you're going through a difficult and overwhelming time, if feels like it's easier to just withdraw from everyone. It sounds like you're scared other people will misunderstand or judge you for what you're feeling, or not know how to help you. I know you've been trying to take care of yourself through all of this, and I'm proud of you for your strength and resilience. But like you said, it's okay if you need the support of other people instead. Please, don't be ashamed of your feelings or scared of asking for help, either here on 7 Cups or from others in your life. You are never alone in your journey and you deserve love, support, and kindness.
@nancy16
Hello there!
I completely understand what you are trying to convey. It seems that you are scared that other people will not understand you or in fact misunderstand you or judge you. You feel that you will need help but you don't know if anyone would be able to help you in the way you want them to. I am glad to know that you are handling everything so well and being resilient in the face of adversity. But like you said everyone needs a hand to hold and it's ok to need one from time to time. It's ok to feel the way you are feeling but it isn't ok to not reach out for support when you need it the most. Give people the benefit of doubt because you aren't alone in this and deserve all the love and support you wish to receive.
hey nancy
I can relate to your situation because at some point in my life I felt that same way. When We grow up, so many changes come with that. Sometimes we do not share because we are afraid of being hurt what other person will think of you and your situation. You know you're brave that you have been taking care of yourself all the time and you're strong. I know there may not every person can understand each other. But it's okay to share your feelings and thoughts with whom you are comfortable with. Trust yourself more than others that you'll be fine if someone doesn't understand you or broke your trust. You are not alone and you're feeling are completely valid. You deserve all the love , support and help. Be open about your feelings, accept that ! Take care of your mental, emotional and physical health. Wish you a good luck with your beautiful journey, live happy and healthy life! 😊