@NonBeing Hey How are you?
I think - for me anyway - being afraid to trust people - come from being judged in the past. Or that fear of being hurt - that the things we say or have said to other people are used against us. Trust isn't something that we just freely give to anyone and everyone. It's earned. It's probably not the same for everyone - some people seem to be naturally trusting of other people.
I think that's why it annoys other people - they just expect other people to automatically trust them. Doesn't mean anyone is right or wrong - we just have to do what's comfortable to us. The people who truely want to help will understand.
@mytwistedsoul
I know how it because i've also been judge and steel being even with 30 but i say to my self that i can do everything i wannt because i'm grown up and if they are not happy it's theyr problem i've been always doing everything so every One likes me but it's time to do it only for my self