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User Profile: LovelyBonesx33
LovelyBonesx33 August 31st, 2014

i dont know if its just me but i feel like most people on this site make me feel worst i just talked to some lady and she made me feel like shit and idk no one understands me i guess... this is why i feel so alone and am afraid of expressing myself im afraid of judgement and i never met anyone that could make me feel better sad

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User Profile: turtlerocks
turtlerocks August 31st, 2014

I know that feeling. When I talkto the few peoplethat I should havein my corner they just make me feel worse. It's a horrible feeling to have. I takes a little lookingbut I havefound a few people on that have.

User Profile: turtlerocks
turtlerocks August 31st, 2014

I know that feeling. When I talkto the few peoplethat I should havein my corner they just make me feel worse. It's a horrible feeling to have. I takes a little lookingbut I havefound a few people on that have.

User Profile: Miracle
Miracle August 31st, 2014

I am really sorry you feel like this , and I don't believe that listeners want to make you feel worse , not for a second.However sometimes it can be hard to find someone who is able to maybe relate or have a understanding of what you may be going though.For this reason I really recommend trying a number of listeners (preferably based on their profiles) until you find someone you are able to 'connect' with on a long term basis.I know it's hard but trust me once you find someone it will be worth it it just takes time.

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User Profile: lovey0urself
lovey0urself September 1st, 2014

I second Miracle!

Unfortunately, listeners aren't perfect. Some are better fit for you than others. Keep looking around though. Try browsing listeners and looking for people with a lot of cheers/badges. Typically (although not always), you'll find those are the people with the most expertise, and they might be a better fit for you.

And, if you decide during a chat that a listener isn't right for you, you can tell them that, as long as you tell them nicely. All of us are here because we want you to feel better. If you aren't getting the support you need, let your listener know. I'm sure they'll be more than happy to try to find the best support they can for you:)

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