i feel really worthless, why does no one ever want to help me?
i have made like 5 post before just asking for help and almost no one ever responded to me :( why, am i really that useless that even people won't try to help me? :( i don't get why people on this site seem to hate me so much. i just wanted to be happy.
Hi i am blue and i don't think u are useless I know how it feels just wanting to be happy I want to help you I really do And this is me as a listener Musicalpower305 Text me when u want to talk
@blue12568 hello blue. thank you for responding but i don't know. i don't want to waste your time on a person like me, i really don't desreve it. thank you for being nice anyway <3
@unassumingTree5669
ok tree i guess i am sorry i dont know ur name
point is ......
listen buddy
i know ok i know u are feeling worthless and all.. but listen to me
right now u need a friend
i dont mean me but someone u can talk to freely
if u think that i could be the friend u need then why wait
and tbh i want a friend too
i have no friends so maybe if u think that this lonely person could use ur company
or if u think that maybe we could be friends then like i said
this is me
@musicalPower305
or if u have a listener account then this is me
@blue12568
@blue12568 thank you for the kind words again and sadly i have no friends however i don't know, i don't feel like making friends on this site will be much help to me, i am sorry. but i simply have no one. no one ever likes me. and i am a loser. :(
@unassumingTree5669
Hey I am so sorry that no one responded to you. If you would like a proper emotional support then connecting to a listener for a one-on-one conversation would be a better option. Not getting a response on a forum post can be completely disheartening.
@Kindstar45 thank you for the kind words but i feel like listeners never ever get me. and i feel like i am just wasting my time when i am talking to a listener. it feels very pointless.
@unassumingTree5669
i know that feeling but buddy i really really really want to help u so
plz let me
@blue12568 i appericate it but i am not even sure if you can help me. i have had depression for a year now it won't get better by just chatting
@unassumingTree5669
ok buddy i have depression too
i just want to help u
but rn i cant so i will get back to u as soon as u can
@blue12568 i understand. take your time
I am sorry my phone is dead and i need to charge it rn I am just really sorry I beg u plz just let me help u U have nothing to lose, right? I promise i will get back to u as soon as i can
@blue12568 take your time. and i guess yeah.
@unassumingTree5669
so does that mean i will hear from you?
(edited by forum mentor @cheerymango for offsite contacts)
@unassumingTree5669
I am so sorry to hear that you don't feel connected to the listeners here ☹. Moreover you mentioned that you are dealing with depression and loneliness. It must be really painful to be painful in your shoes.
@Kindstar45 thank you for the kind words, sadly most people on this site hate me and don't like. i guess no one ever does. i have no friends for a reason :(
@unassumingTree5669
To a degree, I can understand what you are going through. It sounds painful to be in your shoes right now. 💔
@Kindstar45 sadly yes :( and no one wants to help me or even like me
@unassumingTree566
It is natural to feel worthless and not feel loved. Depression does that to you.
@Kindstar45 sadly yes :(
@unassumingTree5669
Have you ever been diagnosed by a mental health professional?
@Kindstar45 no. that is really expensive and i live in a poor country
@unassumingTree5669
Oh I can understand
@Kindstar45 :(
@unassumingTree5669 Regarding what do you need help with?
@danielioan depression. loneliness. feeling worthless
@unassumingTree5669
Which community have you posted your forums in?
@Kindstar45 depression.
@unassumingTree5669 How old are you? Have you ever considered therapy?
Let's imagine that you come to see a therapist. So, there are two big mysteries: what's wrong, and what would look better ( what would a cure look like ). And so if you're a therapist, the first thing you want to do is figure out that you don't know what's wrong with this person, and probably neither do they. And you also don't know what's right for them. And then you start talking to the person to try to solve that problem. It's like, you've come to see me because something isn't right in your life. What is it? You parameterize the landscape of the problem. You lay all your card on the table for examination. And then you think, how can we break those problems down into manageable subproblems, and how can you go about addressing them ...
You need to have some of those things:
1. Do you have a circle of friends, including at least one or two people that you can really talk to?
2. Do you have a close, intimate, romantic relationship?
3. Do you have a meaningful job, or educational path, or serious personal interest (or some combination thereof)?
4. Have you avoided problems with drugs or alcohol?
5. Do you have a realistic, meaningful plan for the future?
6. Are you in good physical health?
7. Do you have at least a necessary minimum of economic resources?
@danielioan hello. thank you for your respond, i am 16 and i can;t try therapy. expensive and i live in a poor country. well let's see. i have no friends. i have no realtionship, i have no job though i am studying. i don't do drugs. i don't really have a great plan for my future. just moving to a better country. well i am not sure. i feel like i am over weight so i guess no. nope i really don't have any money. and the problem is that i feel worthless. i feel like i matter to no one and that no one will ever like me. becuase i am just a uninteresting loser in my life. i have no friends and no one ever cares about me :(
H E L L O P E R S O N I really really really really really really really really really really really (really * infinity) Want to help u But u should let me U should believe that this feeling u are having rn will go away U SHOULD LET PPL IN
@blue12568 i get that. but i doubt i will be getting better anytime soon