in need of a little release
dont you ever realise that the moment we make one mistake, its harder and harder to get yourself out of the hole you dug? you just keep sinking and sinking and dragging everyone else down with you. in a moment of insecurity, i did not phrase my questions properly and my boyfriend interpreted it as me asking him to choose between his friends and me. that night he was already very tired from listening to his friends tell him about their problems, and he told me it was the first time he doubted us, doubted if whatever he is doing will ever be enough for me. now all i want to do is to take away his pain, but i dont see a way of how to salvage this. feel like hurting myself instead; am always making him feel terrible even though he gives me the entire world.
@jukueh
Hi . sorry to hear that you are having a tough time.
I dont know if this will help but thought I would share it with you in case you can find a use for it.
We could say that if he is in pain it is because he nas a need or needs that are not being meet. needs that you might not be aware of.
I am just wondering if you have thought of asking him what they are and what he would like you to do in order to meet them? And then if you can do what he wants with love in your heart, rather than feeling obligated to, then you know how to take his pain away.
Hpoe that helps in some small way.
regards
paul