i want to stop living
i have been going through so much pain between these few days and it keeps getting worse for me. i can't sleep. i can't enjoy hobbies. i can't even be happy. i just want the pain to stop. i can;t even talk to listeners because most stop responding or don't understand me :( what should i do. please help me
@unassumingTree5669 Hi, well done for sharing how you're feeling, I understand that it can be quite daunting and scary. I'm sorry that you feel that way and if you want I'm free to listen! Hope you feel better soon.
@Rainyday1604 thank you for the kind words. However I feel like I would be wasting your time. I have tried quite a lot of stuff and never worked. Thanks for the kind words though. I appreciate it.
@unassumingTree5669 Hi, I wont asked if how are you doing because I know you are not okay. I am here, you can send me a dm so we can talk more. I am sorry you feel this way. In life, we may encountered multiple challenges at a time that will surely measure our strenght, our mind and our heart. But it doesnt mean the harder it gets, the easy we give up. I know how it feels and I want you to know that I am here. If you feel tired, take a rest. Let out the emotions, let go of the pain and sadness. Cry as hard as you can, it wont make you less any as a person. But make sure after crying you are now ready to face the challenges. One at a time only, make a plan of what you have to do and if you feel you are losing the battle, always remember the reason why you start fighting. ♥️ You can also ask help from your family and friends.
You can do this! Never give up. You are amazing, you are strong, you can do this!! You are not alone in this battle. God is with you. ♥️
@AmarahSofia thanks for the kind words. however i feel like i would be just bothering you. after all i am not really the most positive person in here and i feel like i just will get worse. i thank you for the kind words however i just doubt it. i doubt that i am getting better. i doubt that i will even get better.
@unassumingTree5669 Things may not happened the way we wanted it to be but it doesn't mean it is the end. It is only just the beginning. And I believe in you. You just did the first step, which is to open up. Thank you for your courage to speak. Dm me if you have time, I'll listen. ♥️
After every Storm, there will always be a Rainbow. ♥️
@AmarahSofia thanks again for the kind words but i feel like i would be just wasting your time if i do that. i don't know though. i feel like i have no beginning. everything seem to hate me and life just not want me. i wish i had a purpose in life.
@unassumingTree5669 we all have purpose. And I am sure of that. Pls, dm me. ♥️
@AmarahSofia i can't send you a message for some reason? i changed my mind and for some reason i can't send a message.
@unassumingTree5669 I always do believe in this quote; ''Sometimes you don't realize your own strenght, until you came face to face with your greatest weakness.''
Like I said; when you feel tired, take a rest. If you feel sad/hurt cry it out loud. It wont make you less any as as a person We do not have to be strong all the time because we are humans. We get tired and eventually become weak at times and its fine. God gave the hardest battles to its braviest soldiers. So I know and I believe you can.
Me, your family and friends are very much willing to help. If you need professional advice, 7cups has lots of professionals whom you can ask help too. They will surely help and give you all the assistance you need. We are with you in this battle. You are not alone. ❤️
@AmarahSofia thanks for the advice and the kind words. I will think about it and it's a nice quote I guess. Though I am really sure that my family doesn't care and I have no friends so I might be unlucky on that. Take care and stay safe
@unassumingTree5669 Hello. Message me anytime you want to chat! Don't stay silent. Reach out. You are not a bother. You are important and you matter.
@pioneeringPear33 thanks a lot but I feel like I still bothering. I mean I have talked to a lot of listeners and they always seem to be annoyed by me because they stop responding. I also disagree. I don't think I even matter because my family doesn't care. I have no friends. And really have no purpose in life. Take care and stay safe.
@unassumingTree5669
Tree. Hello again nice to see you on here. You're not bothering me my story is very unfortunate as well. I won't bore you with the details because this is your story but I just want you to know that you're not alone and your experience is not as unusual as you think. More importantly I think there is strength in reaching out better than being quiet strength is asking for help and anytime you want to talk or ask for help or anyting just let me know. Life is worth living. ♥♥♥♥
@pioneeringPear33 hello. Sorry to hear that you have a similar problem. Hope it get better with you too however I do know that I am not the only one but it doesn't really make me feel better. I still feel like that I will get worse and have no future.
@unassumingTree5669
I understand. How can anyone be of service to you at this point? What do you need? We are all here with arms opened wide for you Tree!
@pioneeringPear33 i honestly have no idea what i need anymore. just was wanting to get better but now i realize that won't happen anytime soon.
That's be all over, I understand why I'm viewed the way I am, because I seem worthless, take care y'all
I harbored such thoughts on a daily basis when I was in my teens and twenties.
I remembered I scoffed at people telling me then "things will get better, give life a chance"...
Now that I am older, completely filled with regrets, I can honestly say I probably would have loved to have given life a fair chance, than I one I gave.
@InfiniteApogee i am sorry but did you mean that you got better?(sorry i just got confused)
@unassumingTree5669
everybody feels like that once and a while. take a deep breath and try to focus on why you're so stressed and depressed. is it because of a friend who's mad at you, a school grade that's bringing you down, or just nothing at all. there's always a rainbow after the storm💛
@raraaa thank you for the kind words however things aren't that simple for me. to me it feels like in every small rainbow there will be a big storm. i guess i am just unlucky.
@unassumingTree5669
Believe me, things can get better, you need time, if you really wanted to know what to expect from life, then look at people everywhere, they all struggle, but in order to succeed we must support one another and best this thing. Life is precious, don't waste it like I have, I'm homeless and starve half the time, but I kept living so far because someone cared. People do care for you, but you sometimes may not see it
@limegreenMelon4537 thank you for the kind words however I feel like things are different for me. I really have no one that actually cares for me. And I really have nothing really to live for. And I should mention that after time it doesn't get better. It becomes manageable but never better.
@unassumingTree5669
How can things be different, I just lost my mom, and am homeless. If we didn't care, we wouldn't be pursuing you, you matter more than I do, try living on the street and having nothing, you have purpose, we all care, otherwise we wouldn't be don't anything to try to help
@limegreenMelon4537 really sorry to hear your lost and your problems. hope you life get easier soon. but i just find things to be different for me i guess.
@unassumingTree5669
If you hope for my life to get better, then there must be hope for you, you're stronger than you think 💪🏻, I'm not perfect and struggle all the time but if you commit to succeeding, I bet you can
@limegreenMelon4537 thank you. Hopefully but I don't really think I have any hope for myself because I have been trying but it never worked out.
@unassumingTree566 don't quit trying, when you beat this feeling of worthlessness, you will find yourself in a position of power and control over what you allow to affect you.
@limegreenMelon4537 wl I really doubt that I can beat it and I also really doubt that I will even have a good future. Honestly I just can't believe people anymore because it just never works for me
@unassumingTree5669
I don't want to top anyone, i want to help others because no one had helped me, I'm here for you tree, come on over to the support room, they're what keep me going at least, maybe if you give yourself a chance you can be happy, it is possible.
@limegreenMelon4537 really proud to hear and it's actually great if i am honest. hope life get easier for you but group support or chats never helped me. everyone just talks and never seem to answer. doesn't matter much anyway. hope you get better soon :(
@unassumingTree5669
Hey, if you'd like to message me, I'm available, don't worry about my life getting better, right now you're the most important thing in this chat and I'm here just for that reason
@limegreenMelon4537 thank you a lot for the offer and trying but I feel like I would waste your time(and I would go and sleep very soon) but also can't because my account doesn't let me talk to adult listeners for some reason. Thank a lot for trying though. I really appreciate it.
@unassumingTree5669
Not sure why it says I only listen to adults, very confusing, but you would never waste my time, my whole purpose is to help YOU, I care, and want you to know I do, I'm sympathetic to your struggles and am here to help
@LimegreenMelon2345 thank you for the kind words but i don't think it matters anymore. i mean we can't talk and i am sure you have more people to help so you won't need to help me. there are more people that in much greater need i guess.
@unassumingTree5669
Right now, you're the most important member I have to speak with, you're a priority, I'm working on being your listener if you'd like me to
@unassumingTree5669
This account was made just got you, you should be able to chat to me on this one, I do care how you feel
@LimegreenMelon7891 you really didn't need to do that but thank you. i will send a message now. though you should know i am very slow at responding.
@unassumingTree5669 Stop overreacting, the world does not hate u, u are still young, everyone has a purpose, your passion usually is a good place to find it
love yourself or nobody else will
watever u do, things will get better, just put effort into making it a reality faster
@VietBitter it's really more than that. and i do wonder what do you mean by everyone has a purpose.because i find it hard to believe that every person on this planet has a reason to be here. and i have the worst passion ever so i think it's way too late for me. honestly i think it's way too late for me and not surprised if that is the case.
@unassumingTree5669
Really...seliously?...
You can message this listener, I at least respond
@unassumingTree5669. Oh Tree
I know. I have been there. Things do change and this will too. Do you have a therapist, are yu on meds? Do you have even a tiny glimmer of light? Maybe you have had this happen before and you came out of it. What had helped in the past to help you feel bettet?
For me I had to increase meds and that helped immensely. If you're not on meds can you see your doctor? Not trying to push meds. Sometimes you need that chemical push to where you can function well enough to take care of yourself. If there are any kind of support groups in your area they can be helpful. Virtual now I guess.
Nothing is permanent including how you feel right now. This will change. Take care of yourself. Eat. Sleep . Reach out to people. Take walks. I don't know if any of this helps by I hope so.
@Riverswancycnus nope. i have neither and don't think i will. i live in a poor place and don't think therapy exist in my country and no i am not on my meds(don't even have them). not really don;t have much hope left on me. my hobbies helped me in the past and now they make me sleep. i hate them now. i do wonder what you mean by nothing is permanet. so far it hasn;t gone away and i am sure it won't go in the next 6 years.
@unassumingTree5669
me tooo
@unassumingTree5669 take it 5minutes at a time. One step after the other. One breath after the other.
@wittyComputer7875 have tried that but it just never works for me