lost job, death in family - how do i cope?

Hi guys. I'm new here, so this is kind of scary, but here it goes. Long story short, about a year into moving to a new state, I was laid off from my job (this happened a couple of months ago), and now a family member has passed away. I've been dealing with depression and anxiety for years, but I think this has by far been the most difficult and painful time for me. I was already feeling blue about not wanting to know what to do with my life and career and feeling like a failure. Now, I just feel completely stuck and hopeless. I'm currently taking meds, and am trying hard to get on with my life, but there are days where I can barely get out of bed. Each day has been a struggle, and I'm literally just taking everything one step at a time. I feel so un-human - just going through my daily motions, having to remind/force myself to eat and stay hydrated. I'm not a social person, so I don't have a bunch of friends or even family to turn to for help. My boyfriend whom I live with has been very supportive, but I know that dealing with me in this state hasn't been easy for him either. I'm just hoping for some advice, suggestions, comments, anything for that matter. Thanks for listening.