Constant Reminders
I have always been the lonely one, and I am constantly reminded that I’m alone. My siblings all have lasting relationships of 5+ years, my friends all find girlfriends and leave me for them. I feel like I going to be alone forever. I try to talk to people but I always feel like I’m giving more than I’m receiving and I go back to being alone. It’s been almost 5 years of this never ending cycle and I’m just so tired of being the lonely friend. I just want what they have.
@generousSky5734
Hey GenerousSky,
I understand being lonely. I'm sorry to hear that you're constantly being reminded that you are lonely. I'm glad your siblings have great relationships and friends. But I'm sorry to hear that nothing is working out for you. I'm sorry to hear that your girlfriends and friends leave you for other people. It's understandable that you feel like you'll be alone forever even though you aren't. I understand trying to talk to people but seeing that you're giving it more effort to it than them. I'm sorry to hear that after you try that you go back to being alone. I understand being lonely for almost 5 years. That is a long time to be alone too. I understand you feeling like it's a never ending cycle and you just want to be happy and have friends and are so tired of this cycle. I would understand why you want what they have. Please know that you're not alone in this. Many people can relate like me. I know how lonely it can get. How tiring it is when you try and nothing comes back to you. How you just want to be happy and are jealous of what they have for once. Wishing that you had a normal life and not always being lonely. You're not alone on 7 cups. We're here. We care about how you feel and your well being. Your emotions and feelings are valid. I'm glad you were able to share about this and had enough trust in this website/forum to do so. Please take care of yourself and mental health. If you want to talk I'm here willing to listen. I hope this message finds you safe and healthy❤️
