Feeling stuck. All the time
Not a very outgoing person. My parents, my sister, one friend and my boyfriend make up my circle. Out of all of them my boyfriend cares the most. He’s the most amazing person. But I feel lonely all the time. I fail every day. I sleep too much, forget to answer texts, can’t find a job. I even crashed my moms car today. (Nothing major just a fender bender)
i know my parents care, but I often feel overshadowed by my sister, she’s the baby. (Literally, she’s 7) most days it feels like they just tolerate me. Even today after the accident, I was shaken and really stressed and my mom just asked about the car and the damage. She didn’t ask if I was okay after being visibly shaken.
I hide my feelings because people usually run when I’m honest. I try to be there for everyone but somehow no one cares to help me.
even when I’m surrounded by people. I feel alone. All the time.
@sunnyMaple5698 I am glad to hear that your boyfriend supports you.
I am very sorry to hear that your family does not.
Have to talked to your family, and told them, that you would like to get support from them as well?
If not maybe have a talk with your family.
I hope this helps.
Yes I have:)
but my family is not one to show their emotions, during my rebellious stage a couple years ago I would constantly try and make them understand, as time went by I just learned to bottle everything.
but people change so yes there is still hope!
@sunnyMaple5698 I am new here and your post got my attention because I feel like I am stuck too. We have everybody by our side, but we hide how we feel or what we are going through because we are afraid that nobody will understand us, but I do.
This makes total sense. My family then gets upset because they think I try to push them away. Always at battle with yourself can be draining. But things do get better. We just have to keep going <3
